I wish I'd known this about selling when I started my business
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Hi,
Grab your coffee. Or maybe something stronger if you're dealing with today's topic. Because we're going to talk about something nobody tells you when you start a handmade business: the part where you actually have to sell your incredible creations.
It’s often the unspoken weight on every creative’s shoulders. We pour our soul into our craft, dream of turning passion into profit, but then we hit a wall. A wall made of awkward sales pitches, confusing marketing strategies, and that gnawing feeling that maybe, just maybe, we're not cut out for the "business" side of things. We see others effortlessly selling out, and wonder: What's their secret? Am I missing something crucial that's holding me back?
I've been there. I've coached countless makers who face this exact struggle. They've got talent in spades, but the thought of consistently putting themselves and their work out there for sale feels… excruciating. They watch others seemingly float through the process, wondering what secret handshake they're missing.
And for years, the advice was always the same: "Just hustle harder." "Post more." "Follow the trends." But what if the real bottleneck isn't your effort, or your product, or even the algorithm? What if it's something deeper, something nobody really talks about?
That's precisely what we're peeling back today. Because once you understand this, the game changes.
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💸 The Money Moves Story: Elena's Etsy Enigma (And Her Breakthrough)
Elena, a ridiculously talented ceramist from Boise, had what looked like the "dream" Etsy shop. Her mugs were works of art, her bowls breathtakingly unique. She'd get these exhilarating bursts of sales, especially after one of her process videos accidentally went viral on TikTok (we've all been there, right? That fleeting moment of internet fame). But consistency? Forget about it. One month, she'd hit a glorious $3,000. The next, a soul-crushing $300. Her mental health became a dizzying rollercoaster, tied directly to the chime of her sales notifications. She poured every waking hour into perfecting new glazes, experimenting with different clay bodies, and tirelessly refining her artistic vision. Yet, she spent virtually zero energy understanding why her audience wasn't consistently buying, or, more painfully, why she kept hitting a wall of profound self-doubt every single time she tried to promote her work. She was stuck in a disheartening cycle of intense creative bursts followed by crushing financial anxiety and paralyzing indecision about her next steps.
One evening, after staring at an empty Etsy cart for what felt like the hundredth time, the thought of quitting altogether felt overwhelmingly real. She was on the verge of tossing her tools and finding a "safer" job. But then, almost by accident, she stumbled upon a small online community that talked less about algorithms and more about mindset. She started looking beyond the product itself and began digging into why people were buying (or not buying) her pieces. More importantly, she confronted why she felt so incredibly uncomfortable talking about money and selling her creations. She realized her biggest blocks weren't about the clay; they were about her own ingrained beliefs and fears.
She began implementing surprisingly simple psychological shifts. She worked on reframing her pricing, not as a reflection of her self-worth, but as a fair value for her time, skill, and the joy her art brought. She tackled her discomfort with marketing, seeing it as a way to serve her audience by connecting them with something beautiful and meaningful. The results weren't an overnight explosion, but a quiet, powerful surge. Her sales began to climb steadily. Her next month, her revenue doubled, not from another viral hit, but from consistent, confident, and psychologically-informed promotion. She wasn't just selling ceramics anymore; she was selling pieces of art powered by her newfound confidence and clarity. Her studio became a place of creation and strategic growth, a testament to her transformation from a skilled maker into a truly thriving entrepreneur.
Key Takeaways from Elena's Journey:
Your biggest bottleneck isn't always your product's quality or uniqueness; it's often your mindset around selling, pricing, and actively pursuing growth.
Understanding the psychology of your customer – and, crucially, your own psychology – can be the ultimate, most reliable sales hack.
Draft Opinion Piece: The silent killer of countless creative dreams isn't a bad product, a saturated market, or even a finicky algorithm. It's the unspoken anxiety around the act of selling itself. For too long, the entrepreneurship world has glorified "hustle culture" – work harder, grind more, push relentlessly. But for us makers, that often feels like wrestling a greased pig in a dark room. We're told to "just sell," as if turning passion into profit is purely a matter of sheer force and endless effort. This isn't just an inefficient approach; it's a recipe for profound burnout and, tragically, resentment towards the very craft we once loved.
Here’s my unfiltered opinion: We need to fundamentally redefine "selling" as "serving." Sales aren't about manipulation or trickery; they're about authentically guiding someone to a solution they already need, for a desire they might not even realize they have. Think about it: when you create a beautiful ceramic piece, you're not just selling clay; you're selling moments of peace, beauty, connection. When you craft a stunning piece of jewelry, you're not just selling metal and stone; you're selling confidence, self-expression, a cherished gift that speaks volumes. Your art isn't just an object; it's a vehicle for an emotion or a transformation.
The biggest mental shift we need to embrace is understanding that our discomfort around selling is almost always rooted in deeper psychological patterns. These include the pervasive fear of rejection, the insidious grip of imposter syndrome, or deeply ingrained limiting beliefs about money and our own worth. These aren't business problems that a new social media strategy can fix; they're human problems that manifest directly in our businesses. Until we bravely address these internal blocks, no amount of marketing tactics, no matter how clever, will truly stick or yield sustainable results. It's time we start bringing our sophisticated psychological toolkit to the sales table, right alongside our product catalog. It's time to build businesses that not only survive but truly thrive, by empowering ourselves from the inside out.
What's the one specific thing that makes you freeze up or feel uncomfortable when it comes to selling your handmade work? Hit reply and let me know. Your insights help shape future content, and I read every single response.
Mindset Metrics: Your Unseen Portfolio — Investing in Mindset for Massive Returns
Forget about the latest stock market volatility or the dizzying allure of fleeting trends for a moment. While understanding broader economic currents is part of being a savvy entrepreneur, there's an even more critical "investment" often overlooked by entrepreneurs: your internal operating system. This isn't just soft psychology; it's the hard, undeniable driver of your financial and creative success.
What happened? The last few years have starkly revealed that external markets and trends can be wildly unpredictable. Geopolitical shifts, inflationary pressures, rapid changes in consumer behavior – these factors affect everyone, especially small business owners. But what consistently differentiates those who not only weather the storms but genuinely thrive from those who merely survive is their mental resilience, emotional intelligence, and adaptable decision-making. They cultivate a deep internal strength.
Why it matters? Your ability to manage stress, make clear strategic decisions under pressure, overcome the nagging voice of self-doubt, and consistently show up for your business day after day is your most valuable, appreciating asset. No cryptocurrency can give you that kind of consistent, compounding return. It's not just about managing your money in a spreadsheet; it's about managing your mind about your money, your inherent worth, and the profound value you bring through your creative business. The compounding effect of consistently positive mindset shifts pays dividends far beyond any quarterly earnings report. This is why highly successful entrepreneurs (the ones genuinely rich in all aspects of life) often prioritize coaching, therapy, and continuous personal development – they know their "internal portfolio" is the real, ultimate driver of external success and long-term wealth.
What to watch next? It's time to fundamentally shift your perspective. Start viewing your mindset not as a soft skill, but as a tangible, high-value asset in your personal wealth portfolio. We’re going to be consistently covering the importance of cultivating this internal strength and providing actionable steps to build it. This isn't just about feeling better; it's about making sharper, more strategic decisions that lead directly to more consistent income, higher perceived value for your work, and a deeper sense of fulfillment. Think of it as diversifying your investments by consciously including your most powerful tools: your brain and your courage.
In the frantic race for market share and quick wins, countless entrepreneurs overlook the single most powerful determinant of their long-term success: their own psychology. We meticulously audit our KPIs, tirelessly chase algorithms, and obsess over market trends, yet how often do we truly audit our own limiting beliefs, pervasive fears of failure, or the insidious grip of imposter syndrome? This isn't just about abstract "feelings"; it's about raw, tangible, financial impact. A mind perpetually riddled with self-doubt, anxiety, or comparison will, without fail, subtly or overtly sabotage growth, regardless of how brilliant the product or how perfectly crafted the marketing funnel.
Consider the undeniable, direct correlation between self-worth and confident pricing, between resilience and weathering economic downturns, between clarity of vision and attracting the right customers. These aren't accidental correlations; they are direct causal links. My opinion is that the greatest returns aren't found in attempting to predict the next market surge or viral trend, but in systematically mastering your own internal landscape. This mastery allows you to respond intelligently and strategically to external shifts, rather than being reactive and constantly at the mercy of circumstances. It's time we re-prioritized "mindset mastery" from a fluffy personal development topic to a core, non-negotiable, and absolutely essential business strategy. If you genuinely want to increase your financial portfolio and build enduring wealth, start by meticulously auditing, optimizing, and investing in your mental and emotional one.
Have you ever noticed your mindset directly impacting your business's bottom line in a way you didn't expect? Share your experience!
Hustler Tips: Beyond Likes – The 5-Point Plan for Social Media That Actually Sells
You're on social media. You're posting beautiful photos of your creations. Maybe you're even getting some likes, comments, and saves. But here's the uncomfortable truth: are those likes consistently converting into actual sales? For most handmade artisans, the answer is a resounding "sometimes," "not enough," or, more often, a frustrated "I honestly have no idea." Let's fix that. It's time to transform your social media efforts from a passive showcase into a proactive sales engine.
Here's a 5-point social media strategy to start building genuine connections and consistent sales, rooted in smart psychology, not just elusive algorithms:
The "Problem-Solution-Emotion" Hook: Stop just posting pretty product shots with generic captions. Start every single post by identifying a specific pain point or unfulfilled desire your ideal customer feels. Then, present your handmade product as the elegant, heartfelt solution. Finally, tap into the positive emotion they'll feel when that problem is solved. (Example: Instead of "New ceramic mug!", try "Tired of your coffee getting cold before you finish? This insulated ceramic mug keeps drinks piping hot for hours, so you can actually savor your mornings. Imagine that first warm sip, pure bliss!").
The "Behind-the-Scenes Authenticity" Trap (Redefined): Everyone talks about being "authentic" on social media. But the real psychological trick is showing the genuine human element – your process, your struggles, your triumphs, your personality – in a way that invites deep connection and builds unwavering trust. It's not just about showing the messy studio; it's about sharing the story behind the mess, the dedication, the passion, the small victories. This vulnerability and genuine connection build a far deeper bond that consistently converts into loyal customers.
"Call-to-Conversation" Over "Call-to-Sale": People are naturally resistant to feeling directly sold to. Instead of constantly demanding "Buy now!", strategically ask questions that provoke genuine engagement and conversation. "What's your biggest challenge with product photography?" "What color mug brings you the most joy?" "Which handmade piece tells your personal story?" Once they engage in dialogue, they become more invested and are far more open to your offers. This is about building relationships, not just transactions.
The "Social Proof Power-Up" (Beyond Testimonials): Don't just tell people your product is great; show them others loving and benefiting from it. User-generated content (customers using your product), video testimonials, glowing reviews, and shout-outs are your ultimate gold. Actively encourage satisfied customers to share how they use and love your products in their own lives. People inherently trust their peers and social signals more than brand claims.
The "Next Step" Funnel Principle: Every single piece of social media content you create should have a clear, intentional "next step" for your audience. It might not always be "buy now." It could be "click the link in bio to read the full guide on how this piece was made," "join my newsletter for exclusive tips and first access to new collections," or "DM me for a custom order consultation." Always guide them seamlessly to the next stage in your sales process, moving them closer to becoming a loyal customer.
Social media, for all its promise of connection and reach, has become a bewildering paradox for makers. It often delivers only frustration, comparison, and the disheartening feeling of being invisible. We meticulously spend hours curating feeds, tirelessly chasing likes, and fruitlessly trying to decipher elusive algorithms, all while our sales barely budge. My opinion is that the vast majority of social media advice for small businesses is fundamentally flawed because it stubbornly focuses on vanity metrics over true psychological impact. It treats engagement as the end goal, rather than a powerful means to build relationships that consistently convert into loyal customers.
The real "hack" to social media success isn't in mastering the latest trending audio clip or viral dance; it's in mastering the deep psychology of attention, desire, and unwavering trust. It's about making a profound shift from performing for the algorithm to authentically serving your human audience. When you truly understand what genuinely moves people to connect with your art and then convert into customers, your entire social media strategy transforms from a draining chore into an exhilarating, powerful sales engine. This isn't about becoming more "viral"; it's about becoming exponentially more "valuable" to your ideal customer. The sobering truth is, if your social media isn't consistently helping you sell, it's not a strategic marketing tool; it's simply a time sink that's stealing hours from your creative work.
Which of these social media tips resonates most with your current struggles or excites you the most to try? Let's discuss in the comments or hit reply and share your thoughts!
Build with Us: Your Next Step to Unshakeable Confidence & Consistent Sales
You've got the passion, the undeniable talent, and now, with the right mindset, you're ready to make consistent sales. But where do those consistent sales truly happen? That's where a clear path forward becomes absolutely essential.
You've read about transforming your mindset, investing in your inner game, and applying smart psychological principles to your marketing. This is the foundation. Now, it's about taking the concrete next step to build a truly resilient, profitable business.
The most successful makers aren't just talented; they're strategic. They understand that their mindset is their ultimate asset, and they consistently invest in both their inner game and master the art of connecting their incredible creations with eager customers.
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Yours in creativity and consistent growth,
Fede, therapist and coach.
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